It is common for women to be apprehensive about their first time labour. Arming yourself with knowledge about the birth process and the potential complications is the best way to ensure your ideal outcome.
You have heard the horror stories about a few poor women that had a terrible experience in their first labour. Complications do arise during labour and it is critical to have a plan for each likely scenario. The unfortunate spectre of surgical intervention plays on your mind. Many women want a natural birth and dearly hope to avoid surgery however, surgical intervention can save you hours of pain. It is just such a paradox and the great unknown is what really drives the anxiety.
Of course there is the flip side to this where some lucky women have very short labours with relatively little fuss.
Mid wives agree that the single most critical factor that will affect YOUR first time labour is education. The birth outcome you desire is more likely to eventuate if you educate yourself.
It is important to develop a birth plan with your obstetrician. In order to develop a close relationship with your obsterician, you should ensure you attend your health consultations and raise your fears with your health professional. It is important to develop your birth plan together.
In order for you to determine what your ideal birth plan is, you need to know the various scenarios that may develop during the course of your first time labour and what options may be presented to you. This is where education is so vitally important so that you can cover every possible potential development and put forward your first choice of solutions to cover any scenario.
The reality is that our medical system is very good but due to the high risk of litigation, the medical profession deals with pregnancy as if it were a disease requiring treatment and intervention rather than a natural biological process. Doctors are under a lot of personal pressure to deliver a satisfactory outcome for mother and baby but also to protect themselves and the hospital from litigation. If there is poor communication between obstetrician and mother then a barrier of fear may exist whereby the mother is fearful of surgical intervention and the physician is fearful of complications.
The grey area causes the confusion especially in first time labour.
A clear and concise birth plan developed in conjunction with you and your obstetrician is the best way to deliver your desired outcome in your first time labour.
Education is of course difficult when you are pregnant. In your first trimester you may feel very nauseus and the thought of visiting medical clinics and libraries and commuting or driving down town is quite frankly difficult to contemplate. You will feel tired and exhausted during your second and third trimesters which could render you house bound.
You will feel empowered to make the right decisions from the education you receive from on-line training. In the comfort of your own home, on-line training is practical, realistic and comfortable.
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